Journal of Solution Focused Practices · Book review

At My Best Strengths Cards (Second Edition)

Forty-eight cards, each a word, “calm”, “resilient”, “caring”, “analytical”, “strategic”, paired with an image that evokes it. Tara Gretton, a solution-focused practitioner who came from social care, tells how she adopted them with young people, then with adults, adults with learning difficulties, groups, teams. The principle is simple: start with the core tools of the approach, and bring out the cards when the conversation stalls or needs another way in. A short review, which also points to the small literature on strengths cards in coaching and therapy.

Author Tara Gretton (Solution Revolution, United Kingdom)First published Journal of Solution Focused Practices, vol. 9, no. 2, 2025, pp. 131-133Text the author’s original, republished under CC BY 4.0

This is the original review At My Best Strengths Cards (Second Edition), by Tara Gretton, published in Journal of Solution Focused Practices (2025), doi: 10.59874/001c.146657, under a CC BY 4.0 licence. Republished by Complexe Systémique: the author’s text is unchanged; only the presentation has been adapted for reading online. Boxes and notes labelled “Complexe Systémique” are ours, not the author’s.

Whether in education, therapy, coaching or organisational settings, a set of At My Best Strengths cards are an excellent resource for anyone who wants to encourage reflection, build connection, and bring out the best in others.

At My Best Strengths Cards (second edition). At My Best (Work Positive Limited), 2024, 48 cards, from £12.50 per set.

At My Best Strengths Cards were originally designed as psychology-based tools for professionals, yet their reach extends well beyond that description. They offer a creative and engaging way to help people of all ages explore who they are at their best.

I first came across the cards after leaving social care, while searching for tools that could support my solution-focused work. I initially wondered how they might translate into conversations with young people, but what I discovered was how naturally they opened up rich and meaningful dialogue. They helped young people to broaden their vocabulary, to think about what different words meant to them, and to link those ideas to the stories in their everyday lives.

Each card combines a carefully chosen word such as calm, resilient, caring, analytical or strategic — with an evocative image. This simple pairing invites curiosity and reflection, encouraging people to explore how these qualities show up in their own experiences. The process often helps shift thinking from a problem-focused to a possibility-focused perspective.

Research supports the use of card-based tools in coaching, therapeutic and educational contexts. Studies such as Fouracres and van Nieuwerburgh (2020) found that identifying strengths through cards enhances self-expression and self-awareness. Other research, including Karnieli-Miller, Nissim and Goldberg (2017), highlights how metaphor and image cards encourage exploration of values and richer storytelling.

In relation to solution-focused conversations, whether one-to-one, with a family or within a group, I would usually begin with the core solution-focused tools before introducing the cards. I see the At My Best cards as a valuable addition that can be integrated at different points in the interaction. They are particularly useful when someone is looking for a fresh or alternative way to engage in the conversation. Often, they act as a catalyst, helping to start a meaningful exchange or move the discussion forward in a new direction.

At My Best also produce a set of Good Question cards. Since receiving both sets, I have been using them across a wide range of contexts. They have featured in my work with adults, children, young people and adults with learning difficulties, as well as in group work, training and coaching sessions. In many ways, I have been carrying out my own informal qualitative research with the people I work with. What has consistently stood out is the versatility and adaptability of both the Strengths and Question Cards in so many different settings.

In my work with adults with learning difficulties, for example, there are moments when conversations can become a little stuck. On one occasion, introducing the Question Cards opened new possibilities and directions that aligned beautifully with the person’s unique way of seeing the world. It was wonderful to watch his thoughtfulness and hear the richness of his responses to the questions.

The At My Best cards are very versatile, working equally well with every age group, and have a place in coaching, leadership and team development. Their interactive nature brings playfulness and curiosity into conversations, while supporting deeper reflection and connection. Whether in education, therapy, coaching or organisational settings, they are an excellent resource for anyone who wants to encourage reflection, build connection, and bring out the best in others.

More about the cards on the publisher’s website: https://atmybest.com/

Complexe Systémique: what to take away

A two-page review, but one that sets a good rule of use: the cards do not replace the conversation, they restart it when it stalls. A word and an image do what an open question does not always achieve, with a young person short of vocabulary or an adult for whom abstraction is hard. Read alongside the Circle Technique of Huibers and Furman, another visual support for taking stock of strengths, and complimenting according to Frank Thomas, of which the cards are a tangible form. For the same intuition on the client’s side, practising glimmering.

References

Fouracres, R., & van Nieuwerburgh, C. (2020). Coaching psychology and the use of strengths cards in education and coaching practice. International Journal of Evidence Based Coaching and Mentoring, 18(1), 69–83.

Karnieli-Miller, O., Nissim, S., & Goldberg, D. (2017). Metaphor and image cards as tools for promoting emotional exploration and dialogue in therapy and supervision. Arts in Psychotherapy, 55, 116–124.

Contact

Tara Gretton is a solution-focused practitioner, trainer and coach: taragrettonsolutions@gmail.com

Original review At My Best Strengths Cards (Second Edition), by Tara Gretton, published in Journal of Solution Focused Practices, vol. 9, no. 2 (2025), pp. 131-133, doi: 10.59874/001c.146657, under a CC BY 4.0 licence. Republished by Complexe Systémique, September 2026, with the presentation adapted for online reading; the author’s text is unchanged.

This is the original article “At My Best Strengths Cards (Second Edition)”, published in Journal of Solution Focused Practices (2025) under a CC BY 4.0 licence. Republished by Complexe Systémique: the author’s text is unchanged; only the presentation has been adapted for reading online, as set out at the head of this page.

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Gretton, T. (2025). At My Best Strengths Cards (Second Edition). Complexe Systémique. https://app.complexe-systemique.com/en_GB/articles/at-my-best-strengths-cards-second-edition (Original work published in 2025 in Journal of Solution Focused Practices, vol. 9, n° 2 (2025), p. 131-133; republished in 2025 by Journal of Solution Focused Practices, https://journalsfp.org/article/146657)

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