Couples · What makes them last
The secret of lasting couples, revealed by Dr Robert Neuburger
In a world where romantic relationships often seem fleeting, the secret of couples that last awakens a universal curiosity. Robert Neuburger, psychiatrist, psychoanalyst and renowned expert in couple and family therapy, offers unique perspectives on this mystery in an exclusive interview.
Whether you are a couple therapist, a marriage counsellor, questioning your own relationship, or simply passionate about psychology and the systemic approach, this conversation not only offers insights into couple dynamics but also opens doors to a deeper understanding of oneself and the other.
I warmly invite you to let yourself be guided on this journey into the secrets of lasting couples.
Recommended books
« On arrête ?… On continue ? » : faire son bilan de couple (taking stock of your relationship)
Thérapie de couple : manuel pratique (a practical handbook of couple therapy)
The full interview with Robert Neuburger — in French — is below.
How to cite this article
Besse, J. (2024, January 28). The secret of lasting couples, revealed by Dr Robert Neuburger. Complexe Systémique. https://app.complexe-systemique.com/en_GB/articles/the-secret-of-lasting-couples-revealed-by-dr-robert-neuburger
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