Red Sistémica · Psychotherapy
Therapeutic work exposes us daily to heavy doses of anxiety, violence and hopelessness; what is left unresolved goes on operating as a disturbance in the therapist. Oscar Galfré and Graciela Frascino describe the macro-context and the micro-context that press upon the psychotherapist today, and then put forward a device: group workshops devoted to the person of the therapist, distinct from courses and from supervision, to fill a gap that neither training analysis nor technical training fills.
“Care of the therapist is necessary if the therapist is to be able to care: people who care for people must, and deserve to, be cared for.”
Oscar Galfré and Graciela Frascino
Therapeutic work, fascinating without a doubt, exposes us daily to interactions coloured by heavy doses of anxiety, violence, disorganisation, hopelessness and so on, and it is not always possible to give a quick and effective answer to that demand. Part of what has not been resolved goes on operating as a disturbance in the therapist.
This is why one of the practices that seem to us necessary is a return upon ourselves, one that re-examines, among other things, the models that have guided us. Far from turning away from clinical work, this return helps to increase its quality. Care of the therapist is necessary if the therapist is to be able to care; people who care for people must and deserve to be cared for.
Practising psychotherapy raises several fundamental issues for the therapist:
This is a time of accelerated change and of maladjustments, and it produces unease.
In short, the new century finds him with:
Carl Whitaker (1992) sums up very well the characteristics of the daily working setting in the consulting room.
Carl Whitaker, 1992
“[The therapist] is subject to a form of isolation… Even more than from the father, the boss or the civil servant, he is deprived of the corrective effects of a healthy person-to-person relationship… The therapist has no one to be in relation with. He is not the recipient of his patient’s affection; that affection is directed, beyond him, towards the symbol he represents. For the greater part of his working day, he remains isolated. Moreover, his own affection must be as controlled as the blows of a father boxing with his four-year-old son. His participation must be graded according to the physical and emotional tolerance of the patient in transference.”
The therapist thus remains in the uncomfortable position of standing in the middle of the pressures of the macro- and the micro-context.
The matrices provided by the family of origin, the current family and the socio-economic and cultural community in which he lives. Initial and continuing training, theoretical frameworks, his own psychotherapy, supervisions, training courses, and the professional network he is part of, and so on.
But through what do these supports of his profession reach the patient? Through his person, which is his working instrument. This is why it is very important to take care of it.
The person of the therapist is the receptacle of a great variety of themes:
It is therefore highly desirable that therapists should have a space in which to:
This space will have to be distinct from, and complementary to, courses and supervisions.
What has just been described can be obtained in group workshops where experiences are shared within a framework of understanding and confidentiality. This process of exchange would be intended to:
Concerning the therapist
Concerning professional practice
Concerning the socio-cultural context
Key takeaway
The workshop replaces neither personal psychotherapy nor supervision: it occupies a place that neither of them occupies. In training, the focus is professional skill and the side effect is personal change; in work on the self, the focus is personal change — and change in one’s context — and the side effect is the growth of professional skill.
Taking up the tasks described becomes important at the present time, because of the demand for support coming from many therapists who do not have the economic possibility of access to individual, private psychotherapy. At the same time, they could gain from these workshops something extra with regard to professional practice, something such psychotherapies do not frequently provide.
In this sense, sharing as a team the reflection on the therapeutic function, each person’s three-generational perspectives, the use of resonances, the exchange in a workshop that will function as a reflecting team in the manner of Andersen, T. (1994), can enrich professional practice and make it more effective. All these activities can fertilise one another, in a process where the participating therapists speak about their clinical work while also reviewing personal and family aspects.
The activity we are proposing sets out to fill a gap, one that comes from the absence of a specialised psychotherapy for therapists, because:
We therefore consider that working on the person of the therapist may constitute a way of filling the deficit mentioned, without claiming to replace individual psychotherapies and supervisions.
H. Aponte (1985/86) proposes that psychotherapy should develop not only results and changes, but also “the mental growth of patients”, because such growth will help to sustain and to deepen the former.
In this sense, he points to areas of growth to which therapists must pay attention:
A large part of what the therapist comes to know has to be deduced from what his person experiences in the relationship with his patients.
The acquisition of knowledge and technique is fundamental, but the therapist’s skill in putting into practice what he has learned does not follow automatically from that acquisition.
The same author classifies therapeutic skills into:
This last skill is significant when the therapeutic work has to do with the patient’s network: mediations, psychosomatic problems, school problems, family businesses, therapeutic interfaces, and so on.
As a participant in the therapy process, in order to preserve himself, the therapist has to oscillate between being an observer and being a self-observer. Part of the stress of the profession lies in supporting other people without being duly supported oneself. In training, the focus is professional skill and the side effect is personal change. In work on the self, the focus is personal change (and change in that person’s context), and the side effect will be the growth of professional skill.
C. Whitaker (1991/92) underlines the isolation of therapeutic work and proposes, as a remedy, exchange between professionals, of which he mentions various forms:
And he also points to:
In short, all of this is summed up by this master in a two-word proposition:
“Healing… by healing oneself.”
Carl Whitaker
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Who are the authors
María Graciela Frascino is a psychologist with a postgraduate degree in couple and family therapy (CEFYP). Pedagogical coordinator and coordinator of the advanced family therapy team at ISDEBA, she sees adolescents and adults in private practice, in individual, couple and family therapy. She coordinates the research project “Health and family”, organised jointly by the Universidad del Museo Social Argentino (faculty of psychology and psychopedagogy) and the “Dr T. Álvarez” general acute-care hospital, family medicine residency.
Oscar Julio Galfré is a doctor of psychology and a doctor of clinical psychology (UB). He had previously studied sociology, a discipline in which he obtained his degree at the UBA. He specialised in clinical psychology, family therapy, conflict resolution and interdisciplinary approaches. In these fields he works in clinical care, teaching and research. Professor and researcher at the Universidad del Museo Social Argentino (faculty of psychology and psychopedagogy), he is co-director and organiser of the research project “Health and family”, a joint project of that university and the “Dr T. Álvarez” general acute-care hospital, family medicine residency.
This article is an English translation of “El trabajo con la persona del terapeuta”, published by Red Sistémica (first published in Red Sistémica). Translated and republished with the journal’s permission.
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Galfré, O., & Frascino, G. (2022). Working with the person of the therapist (Complexe Systémique, Trans.). Complexe Systémique. https://app.complexe-systemique.com/en_GB/articles/working-with-the-person-of-the-therapist (Original work published in 2022 in Red Sistémica; republished in 2022 by Red Sistémica, https://redsistemica.ar/2022/06/14/el-trabajo-con-la-persona-del-terapeuta/)
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